In the wake of the assassination attempt on former President Trump last weekend, our nation finds itself in a state of reflection and concern. Such a terrible event underscores the need for unity starting at the local level: our communities. The US is not the only country navigating political divisiveness; we are seeing an increase in political divide around the world.

Community associations, board members, and community managers play a pivotal role in fostering unity.

We have a responsibility and opportunity to lead communities toward greater unity and harmony.

Community leaders have a unique opportunity to shape the atmosphere and culture within communities. In times of national and international distress, our role becomes even more critical.

Here are some ways community leaders can take the lead in building unity:

1. Promote Open Dialogue and Respectful Discourse
   • Encourage community members to engage in respectful and open-minded conversations. This involves listening to opposing viewpoints and considering them thoughtfully. Understanding different perspectives can lead to more comprehensive and inclusive solutions.
2. Lead by Example
   • Community leaders should model the behavior we wish to see in communities. This means adhering to the expected rules of conduct during board meetings and community events, treating everyone with respect, and not taking disagreements personally. By demonstrating professionalism and respect, leaders can set a standard for others to follow.
3. De-escalate Political Divide
   • Actively work to reduce political tensions within the community. This can be achieved by focusing on common goals and interests rather than divisive issues. Encourage activities and initiatives that bring people together such as community service projects, social events, and collaborative problem-solving sessions.
4. Emphasize Shared Humanity
   • Remember neighbors, board members, community managers, business partners, elected officials, and regulatory officials are people deserving of respect. Acknowledge the hard work and dedication of those in these roles, and foster an environment where differences are respected, and common ground is sought.

CAI’s Civility Pledge provides a framework for meaningful dialogue for difficult conversations and politically charged topics. Make a point to adopt and share this pledge with residents and board members.

Practical Steps for Community Leaders

To translate these principles into action, community leaders can implement specific strategies to build unity:

• Create Platforms for Constructive Dialogue
  • Establish forums, town hall meetings, or other events where community members can voice their opinions and concerns in a structured and respectful manner. Ensure these platforms are moderated to maintain a positive and productive environment.
• Organize Unity-Building Activities
  • Plan events and activities that encourage community interaction and cooperation. These could include neighborhood clean-ups, potluck dinners, or cultural exchange programs that celebrate the diversity within the community.
• Recognize and Address Grievances
  • Pay attention to the concerns and grievances of community members. Addressing these issues promptly and fairly can prevent them from escalating and causing further division. Transparency and accountability are key to maintaining trust and unity.

We are Human. We are Neighbors. Tap into Empathy and Respect

As we navigate these challenging times, it is important to remember the human element in interactions. Board members, community managers, elected officials, legislative aides, elected officials, and other public service professionals bear the brunt of frustration and anger. Many experience menacing phone calls, emails, and even threats to their safety. Everyone can take steps to protect and support these individuals, ensuring they are treated with respect and dignity.

Building unity within community associations requires intentional effort and commitment. By promoting respectful dialogue, leading by example, de-escalating political tensions, and emphasizing our shared humanity, we can create an environment where unity and healing can result in better communities.

In honor of our communities, and the millions of residents living in them, I am calling on you to set an example in our communities and lead the way toward a more united and harmonious society.

Please feel free to share this message with your homeowners and urge everyone to join together toward a common cause of unity and harmony.